Mariah was invited to play in a soccer tournament on Jan. 19th. She was excited to dust off her cleats since last fall and join some of her favorite teammates. We had beautiful weather and enjoyed spending the day outside cheering our girl on.
Despite the tears and shame of some of her friends, they did a fantastic job. They placed 2nd, only losing to a boys team in the finals.
Yesterday Logan had a day of basketball tourneys. Logan leads the team as the starting point guard and has a killer dribble and shot. He has really risen to be a leader and is always pumping his teammates up and giving them encouragement. Above any victory he may have, seeing him be a good friend and leader makes me the most proud.
Participting in sports has been a fun blessing for our family. It has also been more challenging than I imagined. Aside from the busy schedules and the extreme competitiveness of the sports, we have had to constantly defend our decision to not participate on Sundays. This is a personal decision for our family, and I am grateful it is one we made before kids ever came, because it has been very difficult to stand by that at times. Mariah has had to give up her beloved soccer because we could no longer avoid the Sunday games. Spring will be the first season she will not be playing, and it makes me sick to my stomach. Logan is missing today's tournament, and unfortunately, no matter how well they did on Saturday, Sunday is always the day that determines who the champions will be. He has never experienced a tournament victory with his team.
I am grateful that my kids have been supportive of our decision. I know it is a huge sacrifice for them. Even though I know some of my kids would play given the option, I appreciate that they truly have never complained or fought with us about it. And so far, even though we know our coaches don' t love our decision, they have not treated our kids any differently. I'm so thankful for that!